Serving Queens, Brooklyn, Nassau & New York City since 1985

Richard Cary SpivackAttorney at Law · Queens

Wills & trusts

Wills & Trusts Lawyer in Queens, NY

A will says who gets what and names a guardian for your children. A trust can hold assets outside probate, privately, and on terms you set. Most families who come to me need both — and a fair number need neither yet.

Documents prepared
Wills, codicils, revocable and irrevocable trusts
Also covered
Beneficiary designations and titling review
Office
118-21 Queens Boulevard, Suite 504, Forest Hills

Estate planning is one of the few things everyone agrees they should do and almost nobody gets around to. The reasons are usually the same: it feels morbid, it feels expensive, and it feels like it can wait. Then somebody dies and the family finds out what happens when it has not.

That is worth saying plainly, because the cost of planning is modest and the cost of not planning is not. A will and a health care proxy can be prepared in an afternoon. The expensive part is not drafting them — it is discovering, at the wrong moment, that the house is still titled in one name, that a life insurance policy still names an ex-partner, or that there is no will at all.

The comparison

What each document actually does

What it decides
Who receives property after death, and who becomes guardian for minor children.
Who receives property, when, and on what conditions, while the trust is administered.
Court involvement
Assets passing under a will generally go through probate, supervised by the Surrogate’s Court.
Assets held in a properly funded trust usually pass without probate at all.
Privacy
A public document. Details of the estate can become public record.
The transfer is generally private. No record of its terms is filed with the court.
Timing control
No. Beneficiaries receive what is left when the estate closes.
Yes. You can set ages, milestones or conditions, and separate income from principal.
Cost and time
Modest to prepare. The estate administration afterwards is the expensive part.
More to prepare, and substantially less to administer afterwards.
What it cannot cover
Cannot cover assets held outside the estate, and cannot name who acts while you are alive.
Cannot cover assets never transferred into it, and cannot name a guardian for a minor.

The short version: a will is indispensable, and a trust is worth adding once there is something to protect. If you have minor children, a will is not optional — it is the only way to name their guardian. If you own a home, one of the two matters more than you might expect, because a house titled solely in your name goes through probate either way.

Titres and reality

The most common failure

By some distance the most frequent problem I see is a beautifully drafted trust that holds nothing. Assets pass under a trust only if they were actually transferred into it while the person was alive and competent. If the house, the bank accounts and the vehicles are still in your own name, none of it passes under the trust and all of it goes through probate — however good the document is.

The same applies across the rest of the estate. A life insurance policy names whoever it names until somebody changes it. A retirement account pays to its beneficiary designation. An account with a payable-on-death designation pays on that designation. In a blended family those designations are frequently years out of date, and updating them costs nothing while discovering the problem afterwards costs a great deal.

What I check

  • How the home is titled, and whether that is what you intended
  • Every retirement account and its beneficiary designation
  • Every life insurance policy and its beneficiary
  • Any joint accounts, and whether they carry survivorship
  • Any existing trust, and whether anything was transferred into it
  • Whether a successor executor and successor trustee are named
  • Where the original documents actually are, and who knows

That last point sounds trivial and is decisive. A power of attorney in a safe deposit box the person cannot reach is not a plan.

Disputes

When wills and trusts are challenged

Wills and trusts are challenged more often than people expect, and given enough time an unhappy beneficiary will look for a route. The grounds include lack of capacity when the document was signed, undue influence, fraud or forgery, and improper execution.

The practical answer is not to rely on a will being unchallengeable but on it being properly made: independent advice, clear language, correct witnessing, and no sign of pressure. Where a document was signed thoughtfully, that record is itself a defence.

Where the weakness usually is

In my experience the vulnerability is rarely the wording. It is the circumstances — a document signed in a hurry, or without the maker understanding what they were signing, or where a person with a financial interest was involved in arranging it. A power of attorney who then prepared or witnessed the will is a recurring problem, and it is one reason the person who drafts your documents should have nothing to gain from them.

I act for people defending a document and for people bringing a challenge. The evidence surrounding how a document came into being usually decides it.

Planning

The wider plan, not just the documents

Estate planning is not only about what happens after death. Two of the most important documents in the set deal with what happens while you are alive and unable to decide — a power of attorney for financial affairs and a health care proxy for medical decisions.

Those are the documents that keep a court out of the most private decisions a family can face. They are also the documents most often missing, and the most often drafted incorrectly, because an ordinary New York power of attorney generally stops working at exactly the moment it is needed — when the agent loses capacity too.

Making room for life events

A plan should also account for the awkward realities: a blended family, a child with a disability who will need lifetime support, a partner you are not married to, a business interest, property in another state, and pets. None of these is unusual in Queens, and each of them defeats a generic template.

A pet trust is worth mentioning specifically. Naming a caregiver in a will does not reliably achieve anything, because money cannot be left directly to an animal. A small funded trust with a named successor caregiver does.

Powers of attorney and health care proxies

Questions

About wills and trusts

Do I need both a will and a trust?

Very often yes, though the right answer depends on what you own and what you are trying to achieve. A will is the indispensable document: it is the only way to direct assets that are not in a trust, and the only way to name a guardian for a minor child. A revocable trust is worth adding once there are assets of size, a wish to avoid probate, concerns about privacy, or beneficiaries who should not receive everything at once. I will tell you plainly which of the two you actually need rather than selling you a package.

Can a trust really avoid probate?

A properly funded revocable trust can, yes — but the word doing the work is funded. The trust only avoids probate for assets that were actually transferred into it while the settlor was alive and competent. This is the most common failure I see: someone has a well-drafted trust, but their house, their bank account and their vehicle are still titled in their own name. None of that passes under the trust, so all of it goes through probate and may be contested by people who believe the trust covers more than it does. Assets held in a trust are also not the only assets that can pass outside probate; retirement accounts and accounts with payable-on-death or transfer-on-death designations can do so independently.

How often should I update my estate plan?

Review it when your life changes rather than on a calendar. The events that most often make a plan outdated are marriage or divorce, a child being born or adopted, a significant change in wealth or debt, buying or selling property, moving to or from New York, a change in who you would want to handle your affairs, and any change in your health. A review is also worth doing simply because the law changes underneath you. Documents can be updated with codicils or by re-executing, which is usually straightforward and far less expensive than starting again.

Can a beneficiary challenge a will or trust?

Yes, and given enough time, an unhappy beneficiary will look for a way to challenge the document. The grounds include lack of capacity at the time of signing, undue influence, fraud or forgery, and improper execution. The practical answer is not to rely on the will being unchallengeable but on it being properly made: independent advice, clear language, properly witnessed, and no signs of pressure. I act for people defending a document and for people bringing a challenge, and the strength of either side usually turns on the evidence surrounding how the document came into being rather than the document’s wording alone.

What happens to my pets if I die?

A thoughtful estate plan should say what happens to them. You can name a person to look after them in your will, but a gift of money directly to an animal is generally not something a court can enforce, because the animal is not a legal person. The more reliable mechanism is a small pet trust funded during your life, with a named trustee and a successor caregiver. It is inexpensive to set up and it removes an awkward problem for the person who would otherwise be handed the animal on a sentimental basis.

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General information about estate planning in New York, not advice about your situation. Whether a document is valid depends on its execution and its terms, and nothing on this page creates an attorney–client relationship.

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Next step

Start with the documents you are missing, not the ones you are thinking about.

A useful first conversation is about what you own and how it is titled. That establishes which documents would actually do something for you, and which would be reassuring but inert.

If you already have a will, bring it. Reviewing an existing document is usually cheaper than starting again.